I was asked (by a local radio station) to comment on the media ‘research’ story of the week: What are the things in life we can’t do with out?
(Obviously a slow week in research).
The results were:
Top 20 Bare Necessities of Life
- Internet connection
- A cuddle
- A trustworthy best friend
- Daily shower
- Central heating
- Cup of tea
- An “I love you” every now and then
- A solid marriage
- Night in on the sofa
- Glass of wine
- A good cry every now and then
- A full English breakfast
- A foreign holiday once a year
- A pint
Looking down the list I noticed two glaring omissions. I’d put oxygen and water pretty high on my own personal list followed closely by food. So it’s clear that questions were asked in a particular way to elicit more than just the bare necessities of life!
Gender Differences and People Studying People
A lot of press coverage has made a lot of the gender differences in responses rather than gender similarities. It’s clear for items to have appeared in the top places in the list then both men and women need to be in agreement. It’s not possible to determine if there was any interview bias in how questions were asked. Were the prompts or examples the same or was there a subtle nudge in the desired direction. This happens more than we think in any research involving human attitudes. Whole books have been written about the effects of people studying people. Prior expectation on part of the researcher influences results. Notice that ‘a solid marriage’ figures highly in the results despite traditional marriage being on the decline. It suggests that the sample is weighted towards married people or else the marriage equality (gay marriage) debate has influenced the results. Would people really mention central heating if we were having a glorious summer?
So we really need to take this ‘research’ with a pinch of salt. The warning signs should be an over emphasis on gender differences. It’s standard in most universities for undergraduates to factor in a bit of gender mainly because it’s the first thing that springs to mind and it’s easy to collect the data. Careful analysis of most of the gender differences in psychological research reveals that the crossover, that is what we have in common is greater than that on which we differ. It’s clear from the present survey that relationships and human contact figure highly for both men and women. Many items listed are about the simple pleasures in life such as a cup of tea. Yes I know that cynics might argue that people only listed cuddles (at 3) when the internet (1) and the TV (2) broke down!
An Opportunity to Reflect on Your Life and Values
So rather than considering this as ground-breaking research illuminating the modern-day human psyche, just think of it as than just a bit of fun to launch a DVD (which it is). Use it as a moment for reflection. What is really important to you? Are there some bare necessities in your life that are getting crowded out by other pressures and pleasures. I’m always amazed when holidaying that around 8pm every evening almost everyone stops to view the sunset. It’s something we rarely seem to do when back home. It’s easy to take things for granted in our lives so that we only miss them when they are gone. Back to oxygen and water again!
So grab a nice cup of tea (or a beverage of choice) and make your own list of the top 20 things that you can easily do to improve the quality of your life. What distractions do you need to switch off to enjoy these moments of pleasure?
(In conversation with Trish Adudu, BBC Coventry and Warwickshire, 15/6/13)
- Independent On-line: The bare necessities: Tea and the Net
- Metro: Cup of tea and fast broadband are the bare necessities of life
- People Studying People – Artifacts and Ethics in Behavioral Research
- More posts from Gary Wood about research
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